Lahore( The COW News Digital)Rising Pakistani actress Hiba Ali has offered a candid piece of advice to married women, warning that jealousy and the habit of constant comparison are quietly destroying relationships and homes.
In a recent interview, Hiba Ali was asked about the rising rate of separations and marital conflicts in today’s society. Without hesitation, she pointed to a behavior she believes is increasingly common among women — comparing their lives, husbands, and possessions with others.
According to the actress, this toxic tendency often leads to dissatisfaction, resentment, and arguments within marriages. “Many women start comparing their husbands with others, and it damages the foundation of their relationship,” she explained.
To illustrate her point, Hiba shared a personal example involving a friend. She recounted how her friend’s husband once confided that his marriage was under strain because his wife constantly compared their lifestyle with that of others. “She complains that someone else’s husband bought a new car or gave an expensive dress on a birthday, while she didn’t receive the same,” Hiba revealed.
The actress emphasized that such expectations are largely fueled by social media. Platforms like Instagram, she argued, create unrealistic standards and desires, leading women to believe that they too must have everything others showcase online. “These false comparisons breed jealousy and destroy peace at home,” she said.
Hiba Ali went on to stress that every individual and every household has different financial circumstances, challenges, and values. “No two families are alike. One should never measure happiness through material possessions or social media standards,” she advised.
Her remarks have sparked discussion online, with many agreeing that the growing obsession with appearances and comparisons is a key reason behind the breakdown of marriages in South Asian society. Others praised her for addressing a taboo subject that many shy away from.
By highlighting the dangers of jealousy and comparison, Hiba Ali has positioned herself as not just an actress but also a voice of reason, urging women to embrace gratitude and realistic expectations in order to protect their relationships.
Her message was simple but powerful: relationships thrive on trust, understanding, and contentment — not competition.
